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Anonymous sent: So I met this girl on tumblr like 2 months ago and I kind of started liking her ( I am a girl, straight ) and I started to question myself, am I gay or bi? I mean, I have liked other girls before, how they look. But not like these, I have never really been emotional attracted to them too. And that scares me. Does that mean I am gay or bi? That I have feelings for her? More than sexual feelings? Thank you for your help Xx

I don’t think it necessarily means that you are gay or bi. If you have doubts or are unclear, it’s okay. It’s not a big deal, just take your time thinking about it and sort through your thoughts. There’s no reason to freak out, it’s just thinking about whether you like girls, boys, or both. Don’t overthink it, just keep talking to this girl if it makes you happy. Do whatever makes you happy

10 months ago
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Anonymous sent: I don't feel like myself lately. I'm broken. I can't fix myself. Nobody can. I think i've had a great day and then it all happens again. I've always been strong and i didn't let things get me but for the first time in my life i'm lost and can't keep myself going. I don't know what to do. It's like i'm going crazy. Please help me.

I know exactly how you feel. Especially when school starts, sports, etc, the pressure becomes endless. I think when you feel like there’s no hope, and there’s nowhere to go, you need to find someone—a friend, relative, teacher, coach, that you can talk to. I find when I feel like things are hopeless, that if i talk to someone, they help me sort through my problems, put them in context, and make me feel like i can get through them. and i KNOW for a fact that you can get through anything. Just try to surround yourself with people that will help you, okay? Remember all of the small things that can make your day. CLICK HERE for a list of 1,000 of them!

10 months ago
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Anonymous sent: hello. I just started high school and I am so stressed out. A few days ago I was diagnosed with depression and anxiety and my mom is constantly insulting me about it and calling me antisocial and introverted. I don't have anyone to talk to and I feel so alone and my parents are definitely the last people I would talk to. I can't stop cutting myself. I've tried everything. I don't want people to see my scars, they're probably going to hate me when they do. I know my parents will. I just need help

First of all, you can get through this, and you will get through this. I know things may seem like the worst thing in the world right now, but it WILL get better. I think you need to find a person—a teacher, friend, coach, etc, that you can have a heart to heart with, or at least talk to when you’re upset. Whenever you feel like hurting yourself, just shoot them a text. talking to someone when you’re upset can help you get past your problems, and make them seem less severe than they really are. But please, Remember all of the small things that can make your day. CLICK HERE for a list of 1,000 of them! You only get to live one life on this earth, so try and remember all of the little things everyday to be thankful for. You can get through this, i promise. xx.

10 months ago
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1 year ago | 1 note
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Anonymous sent: Hi, so I have been casually seeing this guy with no real strings attached, nothing sexual, just going out together, kissing and sometimes heavy petting. It's always been clear nothing more was ever going to happen. Recently, I have been also seeing another guy where it is very serious, and he has asked me to date properly. How do I go about telling the first I am no longer interested without hurting his feelings and not let him think I have been leading him on?

If you and the guy have been casually seeing each other, he really doesn’t have any reason to be upset when you tell him you have a real relationship. Be firm and honest with him, and hopefully he will understand. I would focus more on this new relationship!

1 year ago
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Anonymous sent: i smoke my friends out a lot and then they go and get high without me. what should i do?

You should not smoke, it’s bad for you. I don’t feel like I can really give you advice on how to do drugs…sorry.

1 year ago
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It’s so weird when you see someone that you thought was heartless break down and cry. 

1 year ago | 1 note
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Okay so is it just me or are horoscopes always right

1 year ago | 1 note
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Anonymous sent: i just want someone to tell me what to do with my life

Only you can figure out what is in store for you in life. It is YOUR life, and no one else’s. Don’t let anyone else define you, or tell you how to live your life. It’s up to YOU! 

Try and get involved more—become an open person, get involved in your community, and find something you’re interested in. Then, pursue that interest. Just try and keep yourself busy, and you will feel like you have a very fulfilled life! Best of luck, love, just keep pushing and good things will come your way! :)

1 year ago
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Anonymous sent: i just want to stop hating myself.

Only you can make a change, and tell yourself you are beautiful. DON’T LET OTHER PEOPLE DEFINE YOU. This is YOUR life, YOUR body, YOUR beauty. No one else should define you. You need to just walk around thinking to yourself that it is YOUR LIFE, and no one else’s. They have their own life to worry about. Why let other people control how you think or feel? 

I can tell you that you ARE BEAUTIFUL, which YOU ARE. But until you can tell yourself that, and have confidence in yourself, and know your self-worth, that won’t matter. So constantly tell yourself how amazing you are. Switch that negative internal voice to a positive one. It’ll take time, but if you try and find the small things in yourself/your life that make you feel good and unique, and continue thinking about those things, your mindset should change. And you will begin to love yourself HOW YOU DESERVE.

1 year ago
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Anonymous sent: My friend used to cut and think about suicide when she was younger. She says she hasn't in a while but last week she and her boyfriend got in a big fight and she cut when she got home. She told me, 2 of her other friends and her boyfriend and she said it was only this time but I'm still scared she'll do it again.

There’s nothing you can do unless it becomes a reoccuring problem. Just try and remind her how much she matters to you, and remind her how beautiful she is. If you are there for her constantly, she’ll start having confidence in herself. 

1 year ago
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Anonymous sent: i'm in a relationship with this boy. We're dating. One day he asked me to go to his house. the point is he asked me to have sex with him and i'm not ready yet. i'm still virgin and i'm not ready to lose it. he's been asking about this and say that if i dont want to have sex w/ him we will break up. i really really really like him but i don't want to lose my virginity. help me please xx

If this guy really really likes you in the way you like him, it shouldn’t matter to him whether the two of you have sex or not. Stand up for yourself! If you aren’t ready, tell him that you won’t do it. If you back down and do have sex with him, I can almost gurantee that afterwards you will be upset that it happened. Losing your virginity can only happen once. If you have any doubts AT ALL, then it isn’t the right time yet. Don’t let him peer pressure you into having sex if you aren’t ready. If he threatens that he will break up with you if you don’t, then he is not the right guy. You should be able to lose it whenever YOU decide to, not when he wants to. Best of luck love, and please, PLEASE don’t let him trick you/pressure you into doing something you will regret! xx.

1 year ago
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best post I’ve seen in months

veiled-dollface:

prinncox:

askunwellonce-ler:

formaldejekyll:

jollyjoseph:

iamtonysexual:

primsore:

And now we have come full circle.

Christ

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